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Day 4: Any early experiences that in retrospect, hint at your kinks?

30 days of kink

Day 4 of 30 days of kink asks –

Any early experiences that in retrospect, hint at your kinks?

As a child, I was very outgoing, confident, and I had an understanding of how things and people worked, more than those around me. I was extremely curious, and loved to do things to see what the reaction would be. The better the reaction, the more I learned to do those things again to get what I wanted.

I remember as a kid, playing with one of my best friends, we used to have a game where we had imaginary friends that we would tie up, interrogate, and train to do our bidding LOL! That right there has to tell you something!

Growing up, I was always a dominant force. A leader. The girl that both men and women wanted to either be with or around, or actually BE. I was never afraid to speak up for myself, or for others and things that I care about. My opinion was always voiced, heard, and respected. I learned from a young age that displaying my confidence, while expressing views and points that were simply irresistible and/or impossible to disagree with, caused me to get my way, regardless of who I was interacting with.

I started using the gifts that I nurtured , such as my confidence, intelligence, power, beauty and the understanding of what makes people “tick” to make my life easier. Things just came naturally to me. People, especially men, wanted to do things for me.

As I continued to grow older, these skills blossomed as well. I began going out, meeting more people, and practicing my skills using what I would later come to learn is “hypnotic language” and the such, to get inside of peoples minds. I started to study people, and learn cause and effect of using different body language, phrases, power words, anchors/triggers, and suggestions.

This is what truly excited me. What I fantasized about at night. Coming up with different scenarios in my mind that I wanted to test out, and seeing just how many people I could play with. They all EXTREMELY enjoyed it, and loved just being in my company.

Others partaking in 30 Days of Kink:

Ambre Jade

slave john david

I will add as they come in, leave your site in the comments section or email Me empressvoxsiren@yahoo.com

Day 3- How did you discover you were kinky?

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How did you discover you were kinky?

I will go more into detail on day four and five, but kinky for me is being the powerful, seductive, enticing, alluring, dominant woman that I am, and KNOWING how to use that to my advantage. From a very young age, I have always been a firecracker. Things have always had to be my way, and I have always been a strong influential female authority in my circle of friends and family.

In high school I was well aware of my ability to manipulate and control people. Especially men, my age and older. A group of boys even created a “bible” dedicated to me. It was hand written with different quotes, inspirations, and rules all revolving around me. It had ways that they could make me happy. It was cute ;), and just one event that showcased my kinky personality. I mean how many people do you know who had a group of boys write a bible dedicated to them in highschool lol?

I sailed through high school and college using my intelligence, wit, and charm to always have the highest marks.I could wrap any male teacher around my pretty little finger, and it was such a thrill for me. I would become sexually excited by this power, this kink, not by fantasizing about having vanilla sex with “hot boys”.

I eventually stemmed out and knew my power to control and manipulate men, and decided it would be fun to do the same with women who were clearly weak and submissive and craved to be played with by me. I went to a lot of different LGBT nightclubs, gothic nightclubs and various places, decked out in my fetish gear, and would have fun every single weekend. I started going in my teens, and experienced a lot of different things with different people. I would LOVE walking in to a club with a girl toy on one leash, and a boy toy on another. One on each side of me. I was also known to feminize men in these clubs as well. I would bring clothes for them to change in to, and fully do their hair and makeup, and turn them in to pretty little dolls. Ahh memories. So much fun!!

 

Others partaking in 30 Days of Kink:

Ambre Jade

slave john david

I will add as they come in, leave your site in the comments section or email Me empressvoxsiren@yahoo.com if you participate in this blogging event.

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