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Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you?


This is day 1 post of 30 days of kink, which you can read about by clicking here.

Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you?

Well this is SUPER obvious, but just for the sake of this event, I will elaborate. I am a DOMME through and through. I always have been, always will be. Ever since I was younger, things had to go my way, and I was always the driving force behind different actions. I was the main friend that everyone wanted to be friends with, and came to for advice, and asked what to do in situations. I loved and still love control and being in control.

In the bedroom, and out of it, I am a Domme. The sexual aspect of it is fun, but true Dominance over a submissive is what thrills me the most. Controlling, owning, using and manipulating someone in every aspect of their life is what I crave. To be on someones mind constantly and perfectly, and to have the knowledge that I can make them do absolutely anything that I want, is what really excites me. I live for this shit. Seriously.

I live the lifestyle 24/7. My soul mate is a live in slave who has been with me for 10 years now. I have never known what it is like to really want for something, or to have to take care of boring tasks such as cleaning and doing my own laundry. I’ve always had someone doing that for me, because they need my comfort, pleasure, and happiness to come before anything. This is the natural way of life in my world. You give, I take. My pleasure = your ultimate pleasure. My wants > your needs.

I have always been pampered and spoiled by many people, especially men, and I will continue to use them to get what I want. They love it as much as I do. That is the main part of BDSM that interests me. The S/M part, and what comes with that territory and relationship. Everything else just falls into place around that. The kinks, the fetishes, and the journey that is different with each slave who I allow into my perfect world.

I always do what I want, when I want, and that is never going to change. You can FEEL my Dominance just by thinking of me, looking at me, or listening to me. That is true power.

In the past, there was ONE time that I allowed someone I trusted to try to Dominate me, so that I could make sure that it was or was not something that I enjoyed. I really do not give a fuck what anyone thinks, if I like something, I will indulge. Needless to say, I HATED IT, and he was only able to utter a few words before my claws came out lol. Well, I tried!

I encourage you, especially if you are mine, to start a blog, and take part in this event.

Others partaking in 30 Days of Kink:

Ambre Jade

slave john david

I will add as they come in, leave your site in the comments section or email Me

30 Days Of Kink


Taken from my bff Ambre Jade, I am participating in the 30 Days  Of Kink! Lucky you, getting to read more of my irresistible words, and learn even more about me.

I want as many of you joining in on this as possible. Start a blog. It isn’t that hard! Search “free blog websites” on google, pick one, and get started! It will be a great way to spread the word of ME, and to document your slave journey.

Start the blog with this, or include it if you already have a blog. Each day in this 30 days of kink activity is a new question, a new focus. It does not have to be done everyday, you can do this on any day that you feel like. I will be starting my first day tomorrow, and go from there.

Leave a comment on here or any of my 30 days of kink posts with your blog URL, and I will feature it on these posts, updated each time I post  on this theme.

30 days of kink breakdown:

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us. – Click here to read my answer

Day 2: List your kinks. Click here to read my answer

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky? Click here to read my answer

Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks? Click here to read my answer

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience? If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen. Click here to read my answer

Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy. Click here to read my answer

Day 7: What’s your favorite toy? Click here to read my answer

Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic. Click here to read my answer

Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy. Click here to read my answer

Day 10: What are your hard limits? Click here to read my answer

Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?

Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.

Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?

Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?

Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.

Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?

Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?

Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they?

Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life? If so, what are they?

Day 20: Talk about something within kink/bdsm that you’re curious about/don’t understand.

Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)

Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?

Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so?

Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?

Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?

Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?

Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?

Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you?

Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?

Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.

This list is from Insatiable Desire, another great blog to check out!
Others partaking in 30 Days of Kink:

Ambre Jade

slave john david

I will add as they come in, leave your site in the comments section or email Me

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